LR: Weeknight Fun

OK so it was the middle of the week. I could have stayed home and watched baseball highlights on TV.... no instead I will go out and have a little fun...

We went to this club that was really difficult to get into, but luckily my friend had a hookup

Usually in these types of clubs you get better reactions when you hit on women because you are 'prescreened'. That is, the club is selective in who they let into the club. They only let in hot women, or men with connections, bottle service, or who are accompanied by hot women.

That way you don't get groups of men lurking about hitting on every woman in sight... which is actually much better for your game

This night was awesome...

Fuck TV, seriously as much as I love it... gotta say it's a waste of my damn time.

The night was great, at least overall... It was like many of my nights, it starts off with initial anticipation and a little self-doubt. Then I say 'fuck it' and just pump my state and get into a good positive mood.

The middle of my night had ups and downs as girls blew me off or loved me and as the night went on I made "allies" (girls who I #close / or just people I meet and befriend) etc

I did get a couple really bad reactions though, including a girl who said, "Get the fuck away from us!!" as I was walking towards her with a smile... haha

The best way to react to this is just keep smiling or just laugh and move on. It's partially a numbers game. A girl could be PMSing or just got dumped by a guy.

So I kept moving on despite any bad reactions and eventually ran into a hot chick...

She's very firey, and on vacation visiting a friend... just the type I like.

When a girl is on vaca all her inhibitions go out the door...

We dance, banter etc

Then it's out the door, hand in hand, to grab a hotdog at a stand (I paid, sorry David D)


a budding romance

Then I tease her that she has to take me out to dinner next time because I got her food this time ;)

We roll play, have a little romance, and a lot of fun

From there we bounce back to her place because I live far.........

The thing is I at least try to have a good time whether I get the girl or not, this time I just so happened to - it's Win-Win

LR: 'Saved the Day' for a Girl on a Date

First off I in no way advocate stealing a man's women, especially not a girl who has been dating a guy for a while. I do however think it's a dog-eat-dog world and you have to get what comes with the skills you acquire... ;)p

Why is it good to keep in touch with MANY women?

Well last night I was out to meet women with a wing...

I happened to run into a girl that I got a number of a while back. We had been texting back and forth, but I have too many other things going on so I hadn't set up a time to meet with her...

I keep in touch with lot's of women and when it's convenient we meet

She's a hot young Italian/Spanish girl.

Funny thing is she was out with someone as well... a date with some lame douche...

We just happened to be right behind the two love birds in line. I merely acted happy to see her, which I was. because she looked hot.

The guy she's on a date with is a cocky, tall, good looking guy. When I chat her up he scowls at me with his head cocked back...I'm thinking...ok whatever

Since he's being dickish I just ignore him. The girl and I talk a little then I say hey good to see you. I'll see you inside ;).

In line I overhear them talking and he was trying to win her over by telling her how he was going to Ibiza, he also brags about where he lives his etc yawn etc...

...Tool...

Anyways I do my normal thing in the night club talking to women etc...

Then at 1 am I text her:

"Hey how come you're cheating on me!"

She responds in 5 min calls me up a bit inebriated:

She wants me to come over immediately.

She's a bit camera shy

I gladly do so and spend the night...

Before sex she asked me why I was ignoring her and talking to other girls all night. I'm like WTF!? You were on a date I didn't want to bother you etc...

She says her date was "boring as hell"

Anyways, we have great sex (she was super kinky) and she thanks me for ''saving the day"

Afterwards, I ask her if she liked the guy and where she met him, and she replies, "He is friends with a friend of mine and wanted to meet me. He was good for free drinks"

...wow

I wonder what that guy was thinking when he saw us chat at first... she really perked up seeing me and seemed miserable when she was talking to him...

I wonder if that's why he seemed so defensive and stand-offish when he first saw me... it's like he sensed something

If he only knew what happened after their date man that would be devastating...

Moral of the story is if you're like this guy, you have to work on yourself and do what you can to change.

The guy was obviously on the date in a needy, 'impress the girl' frame. He was trying to impress her in every way unsuccessfully, not acting on his own intentions. He should have vibed and had fun with her for himself, but instead felt the need to kiss up and brag about himself...

It comes back to two types of guys: the 'lover' and the 'provider'...

The lover makes the girl feel good, sexually excites her, dazzles her, charms her etc...

The provider makes her feel secure financially and in the long run. He does what the woman wants and kisses up to her in every way especially when it involves money.

He puts women on a pedestal (when women and men are actually equals) feeling the need to control the situation by constantly giving and pleasing the women.

He's basically the guy that the woman makes 'wait' for sex. He's safe and secure, and doesn't stir up any emotions in women.

I'm the lover of women because I enjoy women on an EQUAL level and just vibe and have fun with them... He knows what he wants in women and goes for it. The lover is attractive to women at an deep, innate level.

I know how to excite the girl emotionally and make things sexual...

Any girl would much rather have a good time with me and have great sex than go on another average boring date by another typical guy.

At least right now when I'm single... ;)