Your Personal Coach

(Sorry I haven't updated in a while or answered emails. I've been in and out of town, meeting and hanging out with tons of women, and picking up new interests/hobbies, just been trying to get this to be an active/productive year as i said i would in my new years post)

Let's talk about being productive when you're 'out'

When I got good at attracting women I focused on experiencing things, not just going out to have fun. Nowadays I focus more on just having a good time, but when you're beginning you especially have to focus on learning.

Not only are you learning 'skills', lines or gimmicks. You should be aquainting yourself to social experiences, and building up a tough skin and confidence.

So make every interaction with women a learning experience.

Here's what I do: Use your mind as your own personal coach. The coach in your head should be both teaching you and encouraging you as you go along.

He should be positive and optimistic, but also rational. If you're coach constantly says to you that you're awesome and that's the end of it (ie affirmations) then your subconscious will counter this. If you

Let me give you examples...

Sometimes when I see a really hot girl or am in an uncomfortable situation, my mind still can get irrational and might saying things like, "No you can't", "She's too hot for you", "You're not ____enough for her"

Counter this with your 'inner-coach' with something rational and real.

"Maybe I'm a little shy, but I'm going to just go out and have fun." or "She's super hot so I'm going to use this to motivate me to talk to her." "I am a dope guy when I act like myself and don't care so much about what others think of me." etc etc...

Especially when you're learning you have to be super encouraging and positive.

I'm serious about this... try it out for a month while going out often and interacting with a lot of people.

Eventually it will become a part of YOU and you'll just become a vibrant, attractive person.

Your mind might be predisposed to pull yourself down now, but if you actively use your inner-coach you'll be fine.

Remember you're a pimp and good luck