2009 - Best Year Ever!

First off, Happy New Years, I made a vow to have this be my best year ever! Sorry I haven't been updating this much, I've just been enjoying life too much. I haven't been going out quite as much as before hitting on girls, just been taking off some time, while still hooking up with 'fun' buddies.

This year I've got some pretty specific set goals that I want to accomplish over the year and throughout my life to become a more effective and successful person. I also resolve to update this blog more often...but we'll see how that goes ;)

Alright No excuses! let's just get to it.

I've been thinking a lot lately about life and what it means to be a truly attractive man. It's important to be a well rounded in all aspects of life. This is especially true if you want to attract women and hold them for the long run (Not just use cheesy lines and memorized gimmicks to woo a woman temporarily in a completely try-hard way)

The problem with most guys is they put to much effor and time into one area, such as career and spend 80-90% of their time towards that.
While this is OK during times when you're looking for a new job etc, you never want to be stuck in a rut and become a one-sided person

When I first got heavily into dating and attracting women I spent 90% of my time toward it. Now I spend very little time thinking about it. I've internalized and just need to get into a good state and take action.

To me I go out to clubs/ lounges to have a good time and women just come. Almost on any given night I can leave the venue with a new girl.

If you're not successful with women I would suggest putting nearly 90% of your effort and time into it, at least for a while, until you get very satisfied with your success.

As the wise Stephen Covey puts it, to be an effective and successful person you have to become a well rounded principle centered person.

To do this you must spend equal time in different facets of life: dating, health, family, friends, career, finance, etc. But mainly you have to be true to your principles and self. I'll elaborate more on this later.

That being said, it's pretty darn nice to be good with women. :)

email me if you're in town and want to meet some women and have a blast doing it....