If you were to die today would you have any regrets?

If you were on your deathbed would you wish that you'd spent more time at the office, browsing the internet, or watching TV?

Who looks back on their life and says: "Damn I really wish I spent a few more hours playing XBox"

Imagine what things you would have wished you did more...

Who would you have spent more time with?

Would you wish you spent more or less time working at the office?

What would you cut out... just reflect on the last year or so and imagine if you could get that time back...

You're probably going to regret not spending more time with your family, loved one's and forming relationships...with beautiful women (yeah like the one you avoided approaching the other day)

Now look at your front door...

and walk your ass out and meet some women

Luckily for you, ya still have time to change so get this part of your life handled

Technology

Guess what Casanova's lay rate was?

Just 122 women over his life time.

At the time that was probably one of the highest.

How did Casanova keep in touch with so many women?

He'd risk life and limb by hopping through their windows random nights...

To keep in touch he'd have to write a letter and deliver it to them

While very romantic, I definitely would not recommend hopping through windows...nowadays it's easy for any guy to be a "Casanova" or "Don Juan" and easily reach their number of lays in a few years

I absolutely love using technology ie: text messaging, myspace, facebook

It allows me to maintain contact with lots of women

How often do hot women have facebook or myspace?

The majority of them...

It makes things so simple: You can easily mass text women or send out facebook invites to multiple friends. Keeping in touch is now easy

Not only can you keep in touch, but you can actually meet women online

Even if you're not trying to bed lots of women, technology can definitely be used to attract women. Especially if you're a shy guy you don't have to call up a girl right away. You can simply text back and forth to "get to know eachother"

She will simply think you're a busy guy and often this will increase her attraction to you.

I will for sure talk about texting, myspace, and facebook more in depth

I definitely recommend using technology to your advantage, even for those who are procrastinating techno-phobes or just old farts

'Typical' Wednesday Night

Tonight could be a typical wednesday night...

I could sit in front of the TV and watch Comedy Central for a couple hours then go to bed...

Instead I'm inviting a girl over to watch TV with.

I actually met this girl when I was out on a date with another chick.

A couple weeks ago I was out with a girl I met in Hermosa Beach with her friends and my friends.

When your out with a group of girls it's really easy to meet random chicks, because of Social Proof (look it up)

While out, I eventually separate from the girl and quickly met a hot girl walking by, by just telling her I liked her red hat (which I actually did, but she was also hot as hell)

It was a 2 min interaction but the red hat girl told me she wouldn't give out her number so I just grabbed her phone (playfully) and punched in my phone.

Then I called myself, sending her number to me...

This is like many of my short sets, where I quickly get the number and move on...

I didn't even think much of it at the time because it's one of several numbers I will get in a given night.

We talked on the phone a few times and now have a 'date' set up for tonight.

I later added her on myspace and found out she's a go-go dancer and has a super hot body...

All she's doing is coming over to watch the Sarah Silverman show which I Tivoed earlier... I mean I was going to do this anyways tonight, so why not call a girl and invite her over for it...

That's why I always stress getting as many numbers as possible and making the most of them...

Be resourceful, and also believe that you have the ability to attract all these women... If not, at least try inviting them out and see what happens... you need as much experience as possible to get good with women and to get the best womn

If you're going to sit at home and watch TV anyways why not call up one of those numbers you got last week (ya know the one's that you think might not be 'solid' numbers)

Tonight we'll probably have a little wine and see where things go... (she's on her way here now)

The lesson is that you have to get good with women then become efficient with your time and resourceful at getting contact info with women.

When I started this I used to spend so much time trying to attract women, but later learned that it is quite simple, and now the logistics of meeting and courting them all come into effect.

To get good at this I used to spend so much time calling girls, meeting with them etc, like at one point I was seriously dating over 10 women at once... It was very detrimental to my health and time...

Now I have over 20 options in any given week...just girls who are 'fuck buddies', or that I'm seeing as a MLTR (multiple long term relationship) or I'm just talking to but haven't gone on a date yet

I just don't waste as much time trying to constantly stay in touch/ court them as I did before. I also (like many guys stuck in the game) used to get a bunch of contacts, flirt with them, but never set up an actual meeting... then it would fizzle out...

I try to do what I describe in the 'date' above, that is, see them on my own time when I'm doing my everyday things... It's important to keep yourself well rounded and have other things to do with your time.

(I still sometimes go on typical dates with certain girls...so there's always that too)

LR: Weeknight Fun

OK so it was the middle of the week. I could have stayed home and watched baseball highlights on TV.... no instead I will go out and have a little fun...

We went to this club that was really difficult to get into, but luckily my friend had a hookup

Usually in these types of clubs you get better reactions when you hit on women because you are 'prescreened'. That is, the club is selective in who they let into the club. They only let in hot women, or men with connections, bottle service, or who are accompanied by hot women.

That way you don't get groups of men lurking about hitting on every woman in sight... which is actually much better for your game

This night was awesome...

Fuck TV, seriously as much as I love it... gotta say it's a waste of my damn time.

The night was great, at least overall... It was like many of my nights, it starts off with initial anticipation and a little self-doubt. Then I say 'fuck it' and just pump my state and get into a good positive mood.

The middle of my night had ups and downs as girls blew me off or loved me and as the night went on I made "allies" (girls who I #close / or just people I meet and befriend) etc

I did get a couple really bad reactions though, including a girl who said, "Get the fuck away from us!!" as I was walking towards her with a smile... haha

The best way to react to this is just keep smiling or just laugh and move on. It's partially a numbers game. A girl could be PMSing or just got dumped by a guy.

So I kept moving on despite any bad reactions and eventually ran into a hot chick...

She's very firey, and on vacation visiting a friend... just the type I like.

When a girl is on vaca all her inhibitions go out the door...

We dance, banter etc

Then it's out the door, hand in hand, to grab a hotdog at a stand (I paid, sorry David D)


a budding romance

Then I tease her that she has to take me out to dinner next time because I got her food this time ;)

We roll play, have a little romance, and a lot of fun

From there we bounce back to her place because I live far.........

The thing is I at least try to have a good time whether I get the girl or not, this time I just so happened to - it's Win-Win