'Typical' Wednesday Night

Tonight could be a typical wednesday night...

I could sit in front of the TV and watch Comedy Central for a couple hours then go to bed...

Instead I'm inviting a girl over to watch TV with.

I actually met this girl when I was out on a date with another chick.

A couple weeks ago I was out with a girl I met in Hermosa Beach with her friends and my friends.

When your out with a group of girls it's really easy to meet random chicks, because of Social Proof (look it up)

While out, I eventually separate from the girl and quickly met a hot girl walking by, by just telling her I liked her red hat (which I actually did, but she was also hot as hell)

It was a 2 min interaction but the red hat girl told me she wouldn't give out her number so I just grabbed her phone (playfully) and punched in my phone.

Then I called myself, sending her number to me...

This is like many of my short sets, where I quickly get the number and move on...

I didn't even think much of it at the time because it's one of several numbers I will get in a given night.

We talked on the phone a few times and now have a 'date' set up for tonight.

I later added her on myspace and found out she's a go-go dancer and has a super hot body...

All she's doing is coming over to watch the Sarah Silverman show which I Tivoed earlier... I mean I was going to do this anyways tonight, so why not call a girl and invite her over for it...

That's why I always stress getting as many numbers as possible and making the most of them...

Be resourceful, and also believe that you have the ability to attract all these women... If not, at least try inviting them out and see what happens... you need as much experience as possible to get good with women and to get the best womn

If you're going to sit at home and watch TV anyways why not call up one of those numbers you got last week (ya know the one's that you think might not be 'solid' numbers)

Tonight we'll probably have a little wine and see where things go... (she's on her way here now)

The lesson is that you have to get good with women then become efficient with your time and resourceful at getting contact info with women.

When I started this I used to spend so much time trying to attract women, but later learned that it is quite simple, and now the logistics of meeting and courting them all come into effect.

To get good at this I used to spend so much time calling girls, meeting with them etc, like at one point I was seriously dating over 10 women at once... It was very detrimental to my health and time...

Now I have over 20 options in any given week...just girls who are 'fuck buddies', or that I'm seeing as a MLTR (multiple long term relationship) or I'm just talking to but haven't gone on a date yet

I just don't waste as much time trying to constantly stay in touch/ court them as I did before. I also (like many guys stuck in the game) used to get a bunch of contacts, flirt with them, but never set up an actual meeting... then it would fizzle out...

I try to do what I describe in the 'date' above, that is, see them on my own time when I'm doing my everyday things... It's important to keep yourself well rounded and have other things to do with your time.

(I still sometimes go on typical dates with certain girls...so there's always that too)