The Cycle of a 'Nice Guy'

hells yeah....

so i've been on such a roll lately.

This year, 2008, I've had sooo much utter success with women it's been pretty damn insane.

When I started getting into this game I had a such a low self-esteem and was super shy around girls.

I had a negative approach towards women...basically a defense mechanism.

I'd act like a cocky-funny douchebag machine...like I'd constantly feel the need to play games (well i still play games, but it's from a good frame), I'd try to manipulate, I'd try to bring the girl's frame down, etc.

Anything she said I'd think was a test....

I thought I had to do a bunch of STUFF to win the girl over...

But when you come full circle you can return to your 'nice guy' roots

It's about having value. I have value because I am a positive, cool guy with good intentions.

The girls in my life see this immediately and I can be as nice as I want (without being needy of course)