4 Keys to being GREAT at Natural Game

Although I don't like rigid RULES for learning to attract women.... I have always followed GUIDELINES which set me in a path towards success.

I hang out with many naturals and community guys alike and have discovered that whether they are consciously aware of it or not they exhibit general attractive assets.

Once again there's no linear model that works every time. The game is like a web of a million things going on at the same time...

Having guidelines allows you to practice getting 'better' but also allows you to not over-analyze everything and shuts off the 'negative chatter box' in your head.

It's like trying to quantify or judge art. This isn't a science...

To be naturally attractive you need to focus on 4 fundamental frames or attitudes:

1. Fun (Interesting, Value-giver, playful)
2. Unreactive (Laid Back, chill, Unaffected, take-aways)
3. Direct Interest (Focused on Closing, 'player', Sexuality )
4. Comfort (Rapport)

These 4 fundamentals I've really focused on hard core to master the game.

These four can apply to any method, or approach you use towards women.
You want to calibrate between the 4 constantly, but eventually want it to naturally flow.

When you initially meet a girl you generally focus on the first 3 attitudes.

Throughout an interaction you must change up the amounts of the three depending on the time you've spent with the girl, her state/interest, her reactions, how you feel internally ... etc

You should ask questions like, "Do I need to show some direct interest?", "Am I being Fun or Playful enough", "Is it time to connect on a comfort level with her?" or "Am I reacting too much to what she says?"

Do this in a non-judgmental, non-tryhard way.

It's all a process in tweaking your game.

Another point is you don't want to get stuck in your head with "what to say to the girl next".

You want to shut off the analytical part of your brain.

Just constantly gage yourself as to how fun, direct or unreactive your being with the girl.

I will give more details on this later because I could write 500 page book on this... *yarrgg

(you can have elements of all, or focus more on one or two of the four, but basically adjust it to what works best for you. ie: I've seen some naturals succeeding being 80% direct. I've seen other 'community guys' who are mainly fun and entertaining succeed as well etc etc.)

A Note for Newbies:

When you start off you want to be actively checking yourself for the first 3 guidlines especially.

Early on I've noticed my students want to focus on being 'fun' and acting 'unreactive' (actually being unreactive is a pretty advanced concept).

It's true that these 2 are what generally attract a girl when you first meet her.

Later you'll get better at being able to show 'direct interest' and express 'comfort'.

It's always good to be aware of what you need to improve on in general and situationally.

As you internalize the 4 aspects you really just start to flow... they really internalize.